Shelly - posted on 07/23/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
I believe my son, age 51, has Aspergers syndrome, although he has never been officially diagnosed for it because when he was a child, they did not know of this disorder. He has an extreme anger issue towards me but since he married 22 years ago, his wife took complete control of him and she made him cut me off from their lives. They have a daughter, who is now 17, who I have not seen in 4 years. We live in different states, I am in CA, they are in Illinois which makes it harder for me see her very often, but even when I want to visit them, it has been difficult. To cut to the chase, my son wont communicate with me, does not answer my phone calls, emails, and my granddaughter does not either--as she is either under the control of her mother or she may also have this disorder. My son was labelled as ADD and LD in school and she also has had learning issues. I have given up on trying to reach my son, as he is totally rigid and unresponsive, which is how he has been his whole life, I want to see my granddaughter but how and what can I do when I am treated like this? It is very difficult.