Gloria - posted on 12/29/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I don't know what to do as for my stepchildren expect me to babysit at a whim. It doesn't matter to them if I am sick or just had surgery or worked all day its the expectation that I need to do because they want me to. Oh they dont ask just show up and if I say no they use their dad as a guilt trip on him. One even has a key to our house. The youngest one has parties without asking me even If I am up to it or what the menu should be, he just shows up and makes the inside of our house a cyclone and leaves it. What can I do its upsetting to the dad because I complain to him and he is in the middle ground he doesnt support me because he wants to stay on the good side of his kids and in the process my life is miserable.