ADVICE ABOUT MY DAUGHTER

CHRISTINNA - posted on 07/14/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hai, thank for taking your time by reading my mail.I have a daughter who is going to turn 7 years old this years October 11. I have a few things need your opinion regarding my daughter. The first thing is when she comes back home from school, she always mentioning/complaining that none of her friends wants to friend her, so she decided wanted to change school. Secondly in the catechism class she takes her friend to the toilet more frequently & playing there. Yesterday the teacher have complaint about her being naughty. Taking about her studies she's good. Not because she's my daughter, but that's the truth. Her school teacher have commented that she's very smart. This happen when I went to collect her report card for her first term exam. Being a mother I can't take it if someone said bad things about my daughter. I need to your advice on how to overcome this.

Thanks for anticipation.

Regards,
Christine

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Ev - posted on 07/14/2013

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I work too and go to school. But I would think if you are at home after 5 pm then you have more than an hour with her.

CHRISTINNA - posted on 07/14/2013

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What I mean is, being a working mother, I spends less time with my daughter which is after work 5pm.... Talking about sucking fingers, went she goes to bed, she likes to such her fingers.

Ev - posted on 07/14/2013

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What do you mean you only get an hour with her? ANd why does she suck her fingers and what does bed have to do with her behavior in school.

CHRISTINNA - posted on 07/14/2013

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Thanks for your reply. Yes this is what I taught. This week I'm going to sit in the Catechism class & watch her. I will far from her by will observing her attitude. As you said good comes with bad. She also does wants to share her belonging to her friends. Is because she alone. She likes to suck her fingers while on the bed.Being a mother who spends less hour with her sometimes I know, its part of my mistakes. Can you give me some solutions & trips.....

Thanks
Christine

Ev - posted on 07/14/2013

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Well, Christine, you have to take the bad with the good. Your daughter can not ask to up and change schools because she does not like something there especially if you are paying for it, or if it is a public school she may have to be living in the district her elementary is in. She is going to have to learn to deal with it. As for Catechism class, I assume that is Catholic class she is in, she needs to be in class and not running off to the bathroom with the other kid all the time, how is she going to learn what she needs there? If she is being naughty, you need to talk to the teacher and find out what is going on and talk to your daughter. I am glad she is a smart girl, but unfortunately, our kids are not always going to be angels. They do make mistakes and if it is done at school you will hear about it whether you like it or not. If you do not find out what she is doing, how will you correct it or get her to change her habits. As I said the good comes with the bad. And it is a part of her growing up.

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