Jane - posted on 10/15/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )
I Have a boyfriend who has a child before me and after me. We broke up 4 years ago he got with a girl and had a baby with her. He has two little girls and I have his son. Well we have recentley gotten back together. Well trying to work things out. I love him I always have loved him I know he loves me. We have been seeing eachother since we were 16. We are 25 now. Its just so hard. Because the whole time he was with his Babys Mother #3 he always saw me we never stopped seeing eachother. Even with his first BM when we were kids he cheated with her for me. And you know what they say once a cheater always a cheater. Therefore of course im scared he will do that to me. He is staying with me again. And he has just went to child support for his #3. And the bm#3 well she is crazy she has once keyed my car this was back in the day when we had tried to make it work. She will text me for sure if he text her I love you or something. Cause she has before in the past. Well my whole point is. I just need advice like im going crazy. Do I stay and make it work. I feel im driving myself crazy with all my insecurities about what if he cheats or what if he text his bm.I Hate feeling this way but I cant help it, will it go away ahhh Also he has a lock on his phone says he has nothing to hide but I feel if he didn't have anything to hide why does he have a lock ahhh I just need advice. What has kept me is he is being ways he has never before been with me so I feel maybe he really is going to change for me. :/ Or is that my wishfull thinking. Also ahh I feel am I ready to a stepmom to two other children. One is 6 the other is 2. And im scared to have them go over and have us not workout and confuse well the 6yr old....... Im just so confused.