Advice needed on dealing with my 16yr olds behaviour.

Tessa - posted on 03/22/2014 ( 8 moms have responded )

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i'll try make this short as possible!
Over the last few months I have noticed that my sons testicles have been becoming more exposed around me. Now I thought nothing of it at first until it struck me he might be doing this on purpose, I had no proof and didn't want to accuse him of something so rude.
This morning i got my proof however, he was getting a drink from the kitchen when I walked in we said good morning and he offered to pull out a stool for me so I said thanks and took a seat. That's when I felt a strange sensation under my butt, it felt like a slippery lump was sliding beneath me, so i got up to see what I had sat on when and i saw that he had his testes out the front of his shorts. I yelled at him about how rude that was and sent him to his room but now I'm confused, I don't know what to say to him or what to do with him I need so advice urgently.

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Michelle - posted on 03/23/2014

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Go to your doctor and get a referral to a counsellor. He needs help and it could be from not having a male role model in his life.

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Tessa - posted on 03/23/2014

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Thank you, it looks like it might be my only choice. I am far to embarrassed to ask him about his behavior.

Tessa - posted on 03/23/2014

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That's a problem because my mother, my sister and I have moved to Australia alone and don't know many people outside of us 3 apart from work colleagues.

Michelle - posted on 03/23/2014

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Where is his Father? You need to let him know the behaviour is not acceptable at all.
If his Father isn't around then get a close male friend to talk to him about what's appropriate.

Michelle - posted on 03/23/2014

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You let him know that he's not to be showing ANYONE his testes AT ALL!!!!!
If he is feeling a bit frisky then he can stay in his room with the door closed but it's not something the rest of the family need to see or deal with.

Tessa - posted on 03/22/2014

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Thanks for trying to help Judy but I need advice on how to deal with this whole situation. I am tired of seeing his testes every time we are together in a room.

Judy - posted on 03/22/2014

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I wouldent say much im 12 im a girl but i think your son would take it the wrong way if it gets really creepy yell at him and ask what he is doing if he wants to say somthing he will if he dosesnt say anything i wouldent say anymore and just ignore him and maybe he will come to you

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