Advice needed please.

Sky - posted on 02/13/2017 ( 14 moms have responded )

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I was wondering if anyone knew anything about child law?.

My ex husband has moved but will not tell me his new address, the reason for me wanting to know it is because my 16 yr old son lives with him, I was wondering if he by law has to tell me due to my son being under 18 yrs old, we both have parental right.

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Ev - posted on 02/16/2017

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Sky--you should have gotten this taken care of long ago. Divorce should have had something done about the custody at the same time or shortly after. Just because it was good for so long did not make it mean that this would never happen. Custody issues with court orders assigned to them protect everyone and you could have had that insurance to keep your rights from being tampered with.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/18/2017

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Actually, with no court orders, he can do anything he wants, which is why it is imperative to get things sorted out legally.

Sky - posted on 02/16/2017

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I don't know what's going on in his head anymore, as far as I know he's not seeing anyone not that I care if he is, I think it's just he's trying to hide from his debts like normal that's why he will not tell anyone apart from his side of the family.

Sky - posted on 02/16/2017

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Because of the ages of my children I never thought this would happen, even when things were at there worst he never done anything to Kee the children away from me,

Sarah - posted on 02/16/2017

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If all was well, then what happened to cause your ex to try to hide? It is very strange! IMO it is important for both parents to know where their child lives! What if there was an emergency? Is your ex living with a new partner or something he'd want to keep from you?

Sky - posted on 02/15/2017

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Thank you all, I have never needed a court order as things have always been good between us though our marriage break down and divorce, we have always spent the day as a family on birthdays and Christmas, this is totally out of the blue him doing this.

Ev - posted on 02/15/2017

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I have to agree with the others. YOU should have had this sorted in court years ago.

Sarah - posted on 02/15/2017

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If there is no court order that outlines the custody, support and living arrangements, then I don't suppose you really have a right to know his address under the law. It seems completely bizarre that your ex would not tell you where he lives. What on earth could have motivated him to hide from you?

Sky - posted on 02/13/2017

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There is no court order between us because we have always gotten on, my son has been told by him not to pass it on to me or he will be in trouble.

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