Advice on adjusting to having twins

Donna - posted on 12/25/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Advice on how to help my almost 21 year old son adjust to getting custody of his twin boys (they turn 1 next month) that were kept from him most of their life by the mother. We hired a lawyer and he was awarded temporary custody. We are going for full custody with supervised visitation for the mother.! None of us were ready to have twin babies in the house. It is especially hard on him because he was not able to grow with them during the past year. We are trying to get them set on a schedule, but it is an emotional battle. I would love to get him into a support group but don't know where to start!! He is young and doesn't want to ask for help and I don't know how to get him to the frame of mind to accept advice from others. Me - I'm just mom, he won't listen to me. Any advice would be so helpful. The stress we are all under is enormous :(

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