Jessica - posted on 01/18/2014 ( 11 moms have responded )
I was with my ex fiance' for 2 years. just broke up jan 5th. 2014. I got pregnant 8months into our relationship. he was so bad into drugs at the time and i was trying to help him off of them. He refused to get a job, and i left him a few times cuz he wasn't helping to get anything for the baby. Hes cheated on me multiple times and he has bi polar REALLY bad. well when our daughter was born, he quit drugs all together and FINALLY got a job!
He only.kept it for a few months. Well we ended up moving to his dads to get our lives together for our baby. i got a really good job, and he found a job too. he bought a car, and we talked about saving up money for our own apartment. well that's where things started going sour. he'd get paid and spend his whole check on video games and pills. he wouldn't help with buying what our daughter needed. When I'd be at work, he'd watched her but he would put her in her crib and let her cry while he'd play games. well needless to.say, he got tired of me complaining that he was spening his money irrisponsibly, so he went behind my back and found another girl who lived by his mom in our home state. well they started talking, then he says he doesn'tnt wanna be with me anymore. He never asks about his daughter, he just calls to fight with me. his new gf tells him not to talk to me and when i say he's chooseing his gf over his daughter, he flips. he's always so worried about fighting with me instead of talking about our daughter. he doesn't have a job againand he refuses to pay child support. I'm going for custody nn he wants visitation but i.don't ghink i should let him see her cuz he never cared about our daughter before, so why now? He is choosing his gf over his daughter and he doesn't realize it. he'll be 22 and his new gf just turned 18. I just don't know if I'm doing things right or what to do or how to handle this!? Please help.. -jessica, 22