Advice Please.

Amber Dawn - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I recently suffered the loss of a baby. I was 10 wks 3 days. I am 20 and my fiancee is 24 , we wanted a baby so badly and we were successful in a matter of 2 weeks trying and sadly my first ultrasound showed my babys heart had stopped within 24 hrs of my appointment on August 29th I had a dnc done.. We are devastated and want to try again asap. My Dr. ran tests on my blood to make sure it had nothing to do with a blood clotting disorder or anything. Sense all tests came back okay we want to try again with no waiting. The only issue is I read online I have under a 5% chance of this happening again but then I read stories of other women on here who have had 2 or 3 miscarriages in a row. I'm horrified and I don't think I could handle losing another baby. I see all these teens having babies and It makes me so jealous All I wnat is one baby. Me and My fiancee want to start our family and financially we are covered ... Any advice.. Please is one baby. Me and My fiancee want to start our family and financially we are covered ... Any advice.. Please

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Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012

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I understand the fears this is why im saying take some time first for healing, when it does happen it will be extra special!

User - posted on 09/09/2012

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Thank you.. I know I need to be patient its just hard. We don't wan to wait at all, we just are scared and I think the longer we wait the longer we will be scared we just need to pick our selves back up from this and just let fate happen. As hard as it is :/

Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012

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I'm sorry for your loss :( my advise would be to relax and not to worry about the what ifs! trying for a baby is supose to be fun exciting and beautiful. I would make sure that you and your Fiancee have done the healing from the misscarriage before moving forward. Just because you had one misscarage doesnt not necissarily mean it will happen again. Good luck relax and it wil happen again for you



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