Chanda - posted on 07/06/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband passed away a year and 7 months ago. My daughter was 12 at the time and we had always been so close. I participated in all her school activities and sports and we did everything together. We would snuggle at night and she would tell me how very much she loved me. I still find things she made at school or church talking about her happiest times and she always mentioned myself and her brother. Hrr dad did love her and was good to her but he wss an alcoholic and so I was usually on my own with her. Even when he waschere his family always blamed me for what he did. 3 days after he passed they tolf her thast her dad would want her to live with them. I dont know what they told or tell her but they tell me she id never there. They nevr give hrr my messsges, she has a new cell phone and I am not allowed the number. I call the old onr and she might answer 1 time a month and she is short with me and says she has to go. She wont even answer my Facebook messages. Or anyone in my family. It hurts my parents too. She always puts on fb she misses her dad and wishes he were here. But I am here and sometimes I think maybe she would be happier if it would have been me. Butcshe used to have the biggest heart. Loving caring person and now she acts very hard like them. It hurts so bad I can hardly function. Any advice?