ALL THE SUDDEN MY HUSBAND NO LONGER WANTS TO SLEEP WITH ME PLEASE HELP

Rebeccacaballero - posted on 04/02/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Well lets see I got with my husband in 2007 and we had a rough time at first then in 2010 we got married I was happy but I think he only did it because he was on the verge of being removed from the united states because when he was a alcoholic he had gotten 5 dui's in fact he was finishing his sentence when we got together he has been clean for 6 years. .Well this last November he received his green card and he now has status her forever he says I don't do nothing well I don't cook because he wont eat it I clean when I can but I have back problems .I take care of his business in getting him jobs to do landscaping he says I live for free ,I have caught him talking to other girls but he denys it .His reason is because my bed is not comfrontable but I believe that's a lie if i'm drunk he will sleep with me but I wont let him have sex because I think that's no way to treat me .I just told him if he don't want to be together as husband and wife then get a divorce but he don't want that because then I get half and if immigration knew then they would say we were falsely getting green card .I told my husband if he wanted to act single why did he marry me he says on our wedding day he didn't want to even show up .I stay in my room and him in the living room and that's how its been for 6 months .DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ANSWERS FOR ME?
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Holly - posted on 04/02/2013

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well then i suggest marriage counseling.... but you have to also show your 15yo that you respect yourself and her, and want a healthy relationship, but also that you don't NEED a man to be happy, that you can be happy with just yourself and her. Show her what it means to be a strong woman who can support herself. THIS is what i wanted to prove to my kids, that they can be a strong woman with out a man.

Rebeccacaballero - posted on 04/02/2013

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because I was tired of the bad relationships and the bad life I had before and also he has his shit together I do love him cuz if I didn't I would have already went eles were I guess I knew s what I was getting into it its hard to understand at times I just don't want my 15 year old to think that's way life is but I don't want her to think that just cuz there is problems that don't mean to leave or get someone eles

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