Almost 14 year old smoking weed

Kathleen - posted on 06/27/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My teenager is making me absolutely NUTS. Long story short we come from a history of physical and verbal abuse. Boys never learned quality of respect. As result he has begun using weed sporadically. Not a severe abuser so not able to be admitted to program but at same time has NO INTENT of stopping.
Desperate to understand some who has EXPERIENCED this and what effectively WORKS. I tire of opinions and am dying to get my son on the RIGHT TRACK.

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Kathleen - posted on 06/27/2016

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Oh yeah...he has friends who either WHOLE FAMILY using or the others friend stole from older brother. Had another friend who was also using and knew where to get it. God knows dad is successful and still functioning abuser. POS.
Thank you for your opinion. Going to order tests from Amazon to check. APPRECIATE YOUR TIME to respond!!!!

Sarah - posted on 06/27/2016

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He is 13, the only way he can get weed is thru his friends. So cut off the supply and keep him busy, busy, busy elsewhere. Strip his life of all luxuries; you need only provide the roof, food and clothing. The rest of the benefits he can earn back one clean urine test at a time. Seeing it takes pot 30 days to leave his system, give you ample time to find him a therapist to deal with past abuse issues and current coping skills. However, many people come from abusive pasts and don't use it an an excuse to use drugs.

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