Alone & Pregnant With Twins

Alexius - posted on 05/22/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am a single 31 year old mother 12 weeks along with twins. Right now I am so frustrated and angry with friends and family in my life. They all tell me these children I'm carrying are mistakes because I conceived them outside of marriage. I don't agree with what they are saying. I believe every child is a blessing not a mistake.

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Alexius - posted on 05/22/2014

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Thanks Valerie, Yeah I def. need a new circle of people around. A moms club or group sounds like a great plan.

Valerie - posted on 05/22/2014

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Hi Alexius,

I just wanted to tell you that you are blessed to be carrying these two children. They will bring happiness, love, and will need a loving mama to care for them and stick up for them. It may not have been what someone else wanted for you but it is your life after all. I was separated from my husband with no chance of getting back together period. We just hadn't filed the papers but I'm sure his mother was hoping for us to reunite. When I got pregnant with my boyfriends child, I was afraid she would say the same things to me but luckily she didn't. She said that every child is a blessing-no matter what. My friends on the other hand said the same as your family and friends and I figured I couldn't really be friends with those friends anymore and haven't been. I found new friends. As far as family, well I don't want to focus on their thoughts and I only focus on being a great mother because that is all I can do. So hang in there. Some family may come around. You need to surround yourself with a good support system. Join a moms club or mommy and me group. Find other mommy friends and you will find you are not alone.

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