Charlize - posted on 09/18/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
i need help please. im 19 years old, it may seem young but im very self sufficient. im engaged to my fiance of a year. we've known each other for longer of course :) . and im in the process of moving us to a new home. he's a military man and has to leave next month and wont be back for 5 months. im ok with it, im just a little scared because im not sure if im pregnant. this cite is about mothers so im hoping ill get some help or advice. lets start from the beginning. ive had irregular periods since i was about 14. i was on medication for folicular ovarian cysts. i also have a retroflexed uterus. so i always thought my chances of getting preggers was low. however we wanted to stay sure and use protection always. as of about 7 months ago we decided we were ready to try for a baby (i have a medical condition that could cause earlier alzhiemers, hence the reason for such early trying.) i had a miscarriage 4 months ago. this was going to be our last try for now. ive had regular periods for the past 3 months (which is not normal for me) and nausea but no vomiting. when i lay on my stomach i feel a sort of.. pressure..? not sure how to explain that really good. sorry :') . also ive had slight weight gain and headaches. a heavy amount of vaginal secretion, and sore breast. sore to the point where a tight hug from my fiance hurt me :/ .. oh and blueish veins starting to appear on my chest and breasts. not many trips to the bathroom, but more urine than usual does come out when i go. before my miscarriage i had taken 5 prego tests and they all came out negative including the ob's. so i hadn't changed my exercise routine or my lifestyle. until one day i had extreme pain and was rushed to the hospital and they confirmed the loss of our baby. im afraid of taking another test and it coming out negative, of my husband leaving and not knowing, and of possibly loosing another child. please help. any advice or anything would be helpful. and sorry for making this so long, i just wanted to be thorough :'D thank you all soo much in advance.