J - posted on 12/14/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
I just got in a fight with my boyfriend. The fight happened because I didn't believe something he told me. He got mad I kept questioning if it was true or not.
I realized a few minutes later while taking some time to myself...that he had no right to get mad I didn't believe him....because he admitted to lying to me and I missed it.
Yesterday he told me his friend was flirting with a girl, when he has a girlfriend. I got a little angry because the girlfriend doesnt deserve that.
Today, the first thing my boyfriend says to me when he sees me is "Ya know how yesterday I told you ___ was flirting with ___. Well I lied. ___ just wanted to see if you would judge him for flirting or not. He didn't actually flirt with her, he just wanted me to tell you he did.
I kept asking questions, asking what the point of fooling me like that was. It was so dumb I believed there was more to the story. So ofcorse I kept asking. I admit...I probably should have dropped it.
My boyfriend got so mad I didn't believe him and that I kept poking at it.
Yet I realized..... he should have no right to be mad I didn't believe him, because the first thing he said to me today when he saw me was "babe, that thing I said yesterday, I lied."
He got so mad that he told me a few days ago he promised to stop little white lying to me.....he got so mad I didn't believe this. saying he hasnt lied to me since.
Well. He lied to me yesterday.
Am I really at fault for pointing this out? calmly. When he got so mad and basically blew up.
Am I at fault for this fight???