Am a young mom,

Sarah - posted on 03/20/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Am 24 years old with a 4 month old baby her father, is the most useless and liar man, he has babies every where and doesn't take care of them, I thought things would be different because he was so serious about us now he is gone am on my own with a baby, he doesn't want nothing to do with us, what do I do, I made a decision to not make him part of her life , what do I do in the future when she wants to know about her dad

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Dove - posted on 03/20/2013

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Don't keep them apart. If HE keeps himself away... that is all on him, but don't be the reason your daughter doesn't know her father.

Always tell your child the truth. You obviously don't tell her that he's a deadbeat loser that wants nothing to do with her (she will figure that out on her own in time), but just that he wasn't ready to be a father... or something else along those lines.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/20/2013

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Tell her the truth. Don't lie, cause when she finds out, you will be the bad guy for hiding him...He will be someone she seeks out.

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