Carla - posted on 06/11/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
i have a 3 1/2 yr old daughter on june 28th shes being tested for autism whenever she has a temper my familys take on it is she needs a good spanking so needless to say we dont go around family that much tho i do keep in contact by phone or i go over when my daughter isnt with me she is starting to have bad tempers at daycare shes hitting an kicking kids/teachers she even punched a kid in the stomach an the daycare has been using the word "violent" all i can telll them is shes being tested on the 28th
when i go to stores with her i know i dont have time to look around i need to just get in/out an hopefully she wont have any tempers though i do try an leave her with ppl while i go to the store or i have someone come with me to just sit in the car with savannah cuz i dont wanna take her inside (im lucky when i can find someone to help with either)
ive never really had my familys support for anything i dont have many friends an they all wanna hang out until the tempers start an they leave(wish i could too sometimes)
im doing the best on my own when i tell ppl that i need help they ask why my mom says i had 5 kids an i did it without help why cant you?
so my daughter has a dr appt on monday an im gonna talk with him about her behavior my question to you all is am i a bad mom cuz im gonna tell him i need help an i cant wait until the 28th i know the 28th isnt that far off but it might as well be i cant deal with her temper any more what do i do?