Am I alone in this??

User - posted on 05/22/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Fellow moms, jst wondering if am alone in this.

Since our five years of marriage, the one time my husband never refuses to be intimate with me is before I became pregnant with our first child which happened so fast in d marriage--one month into marriage.

His excuses: oh i don't want to bother the baby! oh i haven't had it with a preggo, blah blah blah...

Need ur help/advice ladies. Thanks.

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is he a cheater? sounds like he is trying to avoid you. maybe he just don't want the burden of you and baby and just hasn't come out and said it. maybe he just wants you to get mad and leave without him trying to be the bad guy. i would come out and ask him what his problem is and so forth and if it cannot be fixed, then he needs to go his separate way.

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is he a cheater? sounds like he is trying to avoid you. maybe he just don't want the burden of you and baby and just hasn't come out and said it. maybe he just wants you to get mad and leave without him trying to be the bad guy. i would come out and ask him what his problem is and so forth and if it cannot be fixed, then he needs to go his separate way.

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is he a cheater? sounds like he is trying to avoid you. maybe he just don't want the burden of you and baby and just hasn't come out and said it. maybe he just wants you to get mad and leave without him trying to be the bad guy. i would come out and ask him what his problem is and so forth and if it cannot be fixed, then he needs to go his separate way.

Katherine - posted on 05/22/2012

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My ex was like that too. He never wanted sex when I was pregnant. So I feel for you. Then after my daughter was born he had even more excuses. It went on for a year. I really started to actually hate him.

Either tell it to him straight or leave. It's not worth it and not fair to you! A bunch of excuses like that are just cop outs.

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