Kristen - posted on 08/22/2011 ( 213 moms have responded )
My brother in-law and his baby mama have two girls that are younger than my daughter and they think its their right to get hand-me-downs from my daughter. I want another girl and my hubby and I are ttc so I don't want to give away my baby/little girl stuff. I have a house and plenty of storage so I've been taking care of my daughters stuff and have been boxing it up by age/size so I can use it again. I have LENT them things and told them that when they were done using them I would like them back and I have never seen that stuff again. They live in a very small apartment so when they were trying to make room for baby #2 they had a garage sale and were selling baby girl stuff (a lot of which I had given them) when they already knew they were having another girl. They borrowed my pack-n-play and I never saw it again they sold it at one of their garage sales. I feel like they are eyeing up my daughter's stuff every time they come over. They even had the nerve to tell another family member that I am being stingy. Nobody gives us hand-me-downs for our daughter. Am I being a brat because I don't want to give them anymore stuff.