Rosie - posted on 12/20/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
I have been with my partner for just over 2 years we have a one year old together I have a 3 year old and he has a one and a 3 year old himself. (His one year old was conceived whilst we were together).
We used to go to his parents quite a lot but they would always talk about his other children and never ask about my 2, his family also get my sons name wrong! When I ised to take my daughter round his grandad said 'is this ... (His other one year old)' and I said ' no' and he said 'no this one isn't cute like ...' I was horrified!
Also when we have the step-children they are nearl always in dirty clothes or clothes that don't fit and too small! So I change them bath them let them wear my childrens smart clothes and his family still pretend I don't exist! They give all their hand me downs to his ex when she had a new partner lives with her parents and had support financially and my partner is struggling in his job pays for his other 2 children and I pay for mine!
Also his family did not come round for my sons 3rd and are coming round for my daughters 1st!
Am I being over dramatic? What should I do?