Christi - posted on 08/02/2010 ( 38 moms have responded )
i was just wondering what other married women felt about their husbands watching porn. for me, i don't like to watch porn, but i will if my husband wants to watch it with me. i don't like it because i think it is degrading and trashy and do not find it the least bit arousing. we don't have sex very often and he blames it on being tired and me not being spontaneous enough. he works two jobs and i understand he gets tired, but it creates alot of tension. i am a stay at home mom and frankly i am exhausted as well, but the want is still there. he will watch it twice a day and if he has enough energy to do that, then why can't he be with me? it really hurts and upsets me. i have gained some weight after having our son and it has been hard to get it off since my insurance won't cover the surgery i need to repair my lap band. it makes me feel like i am not good enough for him. am i overreacting? i have told him how i feel and now he tries to hide it, which hurts even more. please give me your opinion.
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my husband just informed that he wants a divorce so all this was for not. thank you for all of the advice and support mamas. maybe it'll help if i ever end up in another relationship. thank you again.