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How do you know when to cut loose or unreasonable? I love my DH with all my heart and always will. However, he put our family in jeopardy 2 yrs ago and ended up lucky to have 10yrs probation. Then a yr ago he moves his idiot friend in our basement while I am at work. I worked night shift 12hrs at a time. I thought the idiot was only here on M-W for their school nights. MY KIDS tell me DH had moved him in the basement! Over a year later and that idiot is still here. I never wanted him here and yet no matter how many times I try to talk to DH about getting him out he refuses. Idiot has been gone for 3 weeks to a friends and I talked to DH yet again last night about what was going on with idiot and when he was getting his stuff out. DH said he wasn't. That idiot was staying.
hmm..Oh. I didn't mention this either. Last Thanksgiving I told DH that idiot has to be gone by the 1st week of October (this yr.) or I would take the kids and leave. Am I asking to much? Should I just drop it and deal with this person invading my home whenever he wants. He is a bad influence on my kids and DH. He comes and goes whenever he wants at all hours, as well as the fact that I have to tell him to shower half the time because he stinks from NOT bathing! We bath everyday not once a week! Really, where do you draw the line?