Patricia - posted on 06/25/2012 ( 23 moms have responded )
So I feel like I am always on here :( I cant seem to help myself. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for a year and couple monthes- I have an almost 9 year daughter. We live in seperate places- I was married to her dad to 10 years and I am not ready to just jump into something blindly- not fair to her or me. My boyfriend owns his house- yah right- no with his friend from school- a guy- ok no biggie- they have BBQ's together on the weekend and invite their families- plan the menuand everything- marinate the chicken, etc. They just went out and bought an avocado tree together for their house! My boyfriend as great of a guy as he is- doesnt get that this bothers me- I have tried to be accomadating and he wants me and my daughter to move into his house with him and his friend- I cant do it. they have a joint checking account for the house! I kinda was a bitch and freaked out a little when he used my previous marriage against me- my ex hubby dragged my credit through the mud and I am working on getting it back on track, he says thats why we cant move forward. Its been over a year yet but this isnt playing house and I have a child! He hasnt talked to me in 3 days since I told him his living situation is "gay,creepy, and wierd." Yeah very rotten and bitchy of me :( Anyone have any idea how to fix this and help him see that my moving into this with my girl is not going to work?