Kristina - posted on 09/03/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
So as we all know labor and delivery is exhausting. I don't think people understand that. My problem is I don't want visitors at the hospital and my husband does. I would like for them to wait until we got home with our newborn before they came to see us. My husband thinks I'm being unfair and has literally turned this into a fight. I think the time at the hospital is supposed to go to recovery and rest not visitation. I'm due in November right in the middle of flu season. Which is another reason I'm not wanting visitors. I'm pretty set on everyone waiting till we are home but my husband said he would take the baby from the room and let his family see him. Though if I tell the hospital prior to having the baby I don't want any visitors he wouldn't be able to do that either. He swears I have a problem with his family which I don't. We all get along wonderfully or so I thought. I know his family disapproves of me because he's said so himself. I just want to know if anyone else thinks I'm being unreasonable about the no visitors until we are home. Or am I right to ask him this.