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First let me get out there that I am a teen mom. The father is 20 and I'm about to be 18. Our son is 2 and we've been broken up for little over a year. The dad has been with a few girls and has brought 2 around Tripp (our son) without my permission, never met either of them.
So here's the recent issue; the dad has been dating this one girl who is like 19. They've been together for at least 9 months (it's been awhile). I have not once met her nor will she talk to me. When they were dating for only 5 months someone informed me that they had "family pictures" done without anyone knowing about it. And of course the photographer had them all over Facebook for everyone to see. The dad and his parents think I'm wrong for not wanting her around Tripp and they think it's "unrealistic" to keep a girlfriend away. So they keep allowing their son to bring her around. So basically they really don't care. My parents also have a problem with it too.
My dad has talked to a lawyer because for some reason they all think they have a say in what Tripp does and where he goes. Which is not true. I have full custody because we weren't married when he was born.
Anyway, am I the only one who thinks any of this is wrong?? What should I do? Eventually the girlfriend would have to come around Tripp, I understand that completely. But I have never met her before and this is still continuing to this day.