am so confused my son looks so much like my ex, we met a month before i got married, i think my ex is his father,what do i do about this.pls i need advise
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â« Shawnn âªâ«â« - posted on 10/08/2013
If you didn't want to hurt your husband, you shouldn't have hooked back up with the ex right before you got married. Sorry, that's harsh, but that's the truth.
And it will hurt him more if you hide it now. Be honest. It's the only way to go at this point.
Michelle - posted on 10/09/2013
So how long after you last had sex with your ex did you find out you were pregnant?
I think we really need a bit of a timeline here. If you were having sex with your ex just before you got married I hope your husband knows!
YOU need to be upfront with your husband and let him now you were cheating on him before you got married. Don't be surprised if he leaves you though.
Anita - posted on 10/09/2013
Thanks u all,just that didn't know my ex could except the baby and my husband had already proposed, unfortunately my son came out all like my ex, I just wanted to give him a father, because didn't know my ex was ready now he knows abt the child by just thinking on how to approch my husband.
The father is the person you had sex with when you conceived. If you were regularly having sex with different men, you need to get a DNA test. Tell the possible fathers you were having sex with all of them during the time you could have conceived your son so you need a DNA test to learn who the father is. That said, they do not have to consent to the test if they don't want to, if they refuse, you need to get a court order for each of the men who refuse. Once you have the court order, they have to do the test or be held in contempt.
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