Elizabeth - posted on 09/27/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have a daughter of 3.5yrs and l left his father after realizing that he was too unfaithful to me. I tried to talk to him politely and endure too much of his extravagance but worse of all is when l came to learn that he was having an affair with his sister in law and one of his nephew. I could not endure this any more so l decided to leave him that was October last year(2014). I have been taking care of my daughter alone since then and now he wants us to reconcile the issue but worse of all he abuses me sometimes through message. l never want to separate my daughter from his father so l use to allow him to see her sometime but now l feel that l need to divorce him because l don't see the logic of reconcile with him while he doesn't seem to change.