Marie - posted on 07/23/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
I really need advice on what i should do. I'm 25 years old... My child father and I broke up recently. I must admit I did not treat him well and I believe the root of the way I treated him was because of him being un trustworthy in the past. I have a hard time forgiving people, something i must work on because no one is perfect...So.. We had a premature baby and I took that really hard. I blamed myself, did not feel womanly, i just felt like it was all my fault. a month ago I checked his call log and saw he was talking to another women. when he found out that I knew about her, he called my phone and told me the relationship was over. I reacted my busting his tires. Later that night he was at my mother's house visiting my daughter I told him to get out. We got into an altercation and he called the police I was arrested.
I now drop my daughter off at his mother's house when i go to school on mon and wed. Last week when i dropped her off I noticed that his new girlfriend was there. I know that I can not control what goes on in someone else's house but its too early for him to play house with my child around. She's a baby. I don't know what to do. he only sees her on those days as of right now. I do not want him to see her on other days because he will keep her without letting me know what's going on with her. Yes i'm trying to control the situation but it's beyond me and will get worse..