Olga - posted on 06/19/2016 ( 13 moms have responded )
My 18 year old daughter left a week and 4 days ago and I am heartbroken. She graduated a week before top 15% of class and Class President. She moved in with boyfriend and mom which mom has a 19 year old daughter with a 2 year old daughter and boyfriend living under same roof. The mom came with boyfriend to pick up my daughter ( I was going crazy) how can any person call themselves a mom taking another mom's daughter away. I feel as if she is more of a friend to her children. There are NO rules under her roof except that everyone needs to work. My daughter had a job waiting for her working with the mom. I see the whole picture a little weird. I feel as my child is being brain washed and being used to keep boyfriend in line for the mom. My daughter is blinded by love, lust and of course the mom calls her "princess". I taught my daughter morals, and was raised in a christian home. I don't know what to do because she has not communicated with me. I gave her everything and I don't know what to do with myself. I am going crazy because we used to text 3 to 4 times a day and now NOTHING! I want my daughter back but I know that she is the only person who can make that decision. She did hurt my feelings and said that she no longer wanted to live under our roof, did not like us and that we were boring people. She texted my son happy B-day last week and Happy Father's Day to my husband but me who gave her birth NOTHING! I need help. I know that she is 18 years old and would of been ok with her going to the dorms, apt with girlfriends but not move into boyfriend's house with the mom! She has a scholarship for college for August and hope and pray that she will attend. I am also scared that she will get pregnant since the mother wants her bad for her son. What should i do?