Brenda - posted on 10/10/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I've been with my husband awhile now, but after we became pregnant his daughters mom become very jealous and a bit crazy. She hated me and decided to take him to court to take custody away from him, I think the thought of us starting a family and how serious we were killed her inside..so she decided to make my pregnancy hell! Anyways after i had my daughter everything calmed down, I let her know that, "no matter what, whether you like me or not my daughter and your daughter will always be sisters and theres nothing that you do or say that will change that" after that conversation her guard went down a bit and i noticed her attitude around us changed she actually put my opinion into consideration and viewed me as a second mom to her daughter which i adore! we are civil around each other I'm happy we are on the same page about how we are all raising our daughter but i still haven't put my guard down and don't really trust her around me or my daughter after all the mean things she said and did while i was pregnant.. i don't know what to do. apart of my wants to just put everything aside and be more open to communicate but at the same time i want to continue being reserved and to ourselves. ex being having one big birthday with all our families vs two separate birthdays..