Elizabeth - posted on 05/18/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
We have a both physically and mentally disabled 15 year old daughter. She is mentally more around 5. And needs lots of help with bathing, cleaning etc. I work and am the breadwinner and as such my husband stays home to take care of our daughter. I have been getting criticism from others, even at work about allowing my husband to take care of her as he does. They get along great and even though physically she is mature and is going through every other issue girls that age do (breasts, periods, etc.) they get along well.
I am glad my husband is there to help but I really hate all the negativity I am getting for it.
Yes, he does bathe her, change her pads, dress her, feeds her, etc. but she is always happy to be with him.