Cozmo2 - posted on 01/22/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
Apparently in my husbands eyes of 20 years...Blood is Thicker than Love...We have two kids together and been together 20 years and he tells me that he needs to be a father figure to his nephew who is being raised by his sister. Our son had to go to the emergency room I called hubby to let him know that cause he wasn't home at the time he was out helping another one his family members to move and he told me to call him when I get to the emergency room. This was 1am Friday night/saturday morning and I didn't hear or see hubby until 6pm Saturday evening. All these hours in between the results of the emergency room visit wasn't of concern to him, fulfilling his twisted obligation to his family was priority for him. After these events I had no choice but to ask him to leave our house because I feel he does not love his children nor myself more than his extended family. This has made me question everything I can't forgive anyone who hurts my children including their father. For twenty yrs we have raised our children together and all of a sudden he saids his nephew needs a father. I feel betrayed, heart broken and the whole situation is taking all my thoughts. I'm preparing to move, cut all communication with him and members of his family, which our children won't make that easy his children will be hurt by not seeing or having contact with their father but is it selfish to disappear with my kids for a while to heal so I could be sane to take care of our children alone? I pray everyday for God to keep me from wanting revenge in some way. It's been two weeks since all this has unfolded and hubby has yet to come get the rest of his belongings out of the house we once shared. I want all his stuff gone in tack without cutting his cloths up so I could start moving preparation, disconnect phones and try to heal. HELP Am i wrong? what would you do in my situation?