Gemstones - posted on 04/16/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi i am a mother of 2 teenagers, The eldest one is brad he is currently 16, the youngest one is Kyle he is 13. Kyle is the main problem.He is very cold and selfish and always says cruel things to brad and often times makes me feel like i do not exist. He also lacks compassion, from what i can observe he can sometimes be cruel to and ignores our pets. My eldest, brad is a lot more hopeful he is very good with the pets and seems to be in touch with his emotion and soft side, however he can be very manipulative. I have learned to see threw it but i can tell when he is trying to control me, also when ever my husband try's to hug my eldest or show him some love he freaks out,pushes him away, grabs his arms and behaves like my father is trying to attack him. inst it important for a boy to have a good relationship with his father? Anyway is this normal for teenagers or just a phase? please help me i am in need of counsel!