Allie - posted on 03/11/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
My ex husband won a long and drawn out custody battle over our daughter. He did it in revenge after I remarried. He told me if I got remarried he would take our daughter away and he was true to his promise. He has a lot more money and time than I do, so he won in court. Now, I am left to pick up the pieces of my life. I must pay child support and that requires me to work full time. However, my current husband and I have two children and his mother is disabled. I have been the primary caregiver for the children and his mother and I was fine with that. It works better for me to be at home to take care of the household and my family. My ex does not need the money I give him. I know for a fact he uses it to play golf with. I feel depressed and overwhelmed because my new work schedule makes it so that I feel like I am running in every direction to work and take care of my family and on top of that, I never get to see my daughter that I am supporting. Help? Is there anyone out there who knows how I feel and what I should do?