Are we getting used??h

TanyaSalinger - posted on 01/25/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hi,
I'm sorry for the first post, predicive text on my phone. My daughter just moved out a few weeks ago with her new bf and 6 month old baby son
The baby's bio Dad comes to our house twice a week to collect him then brings him back about 6 hours later. My daughter and her new bf doesn't want them to know where she lives so she excepts her Dad to collect baby and bring him to our house then when he comes home its latish and we have to bring him straight home. We only see him when he's in the car getting picked up and dropped off. Its very hurtful to say the least. I feel like we're just getting used for this purpose. So looking for some advice. Am I been to hard? I haven't said anything to her yet but I've said it to my husband and he can't keep anything to himself & he said it to them. He said yous are only using us for lifts and her bf said well your his Granda. What would you do?? Thanks for reading and if you have any questions just ask
xx

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Gena - posted on 01/27/2014

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Do you never get time to spend with your grandchild?I think its unfair if they just use you as the "bring and fetch".Why dont they want the bio dad to know where they live?If they have a good reason then i understand,but they could atleast let you have some time with the child and not only when you fetch and bring.I would feel used aswell.

Michelle - posted on 01/25/2014

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Glad it's not just me Jodi. I tried to read it 3 times and still didn't understand more than the first 2 lines.

Michelle - posted on 01/25/2014

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Could you please retype because I can't understand what is happening.

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