army wives please help , husband left for BCT

Alaysia - posted on 02/09/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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im a young army wife (18) and right now im in tennessee and this is my first time really being away from my husband for this long and i just dont know what to do ,my husband is in the army and he left for BCT in fort sill on january 14 and has AIT in fort sam and im still having a hard time dealing with the fact that he is gone. we recently got married on christmas eve 2012 no kids yet. anybody have any advice on how to deal with this??

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Crystal - posted on 06/05/2013

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im also from tn but moved here to fort riley last year my husband is over seas right now i feel ya this is my 4th deployment of him being gone he is here one year gone the next its a hard job and it just takes a strong woman to make it. If you keep your self busy sometimes it makes the day go by faster.

Smithy - posted on 02/11/2013

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I'm sure they are missing their son too so thats something you'll have in common.It'll be exciting to see places he's talked about and people he's grown up with.Maybe you can talk about them when you get to write or phone him and that'll give him a lovely link to home.

Alaysia - posted on 02/10/2013

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sadly the only family i have is his side ; my side doesn't speak to me. Im not sure if there is a group , his family is about to move back home and im going with well of course because i live with them , and where their from i never been and i don't know anybody there so that will make it harder.

Smithy - posted on 02/10/2013

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No advice,just wanted to send you a big hug,sounds like a hard time for you.Do you have any friends or family nearby? Are there any other wives or groups of wives you could connect with for mutual support as there are probably lots of you in the same position

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