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Bridget - posted on 11/23/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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after 23 horrible abyusive years i managed to get away from my husband he was abusive, verbally physically and emotionall he is a policeman - they have different laws than us mortals - i could not get away from him all these years. finally he was taken away and jailed and when he came out of jail he managed to take our 15 year old daughter with him. he lured her away by "buying her" that is giving her total freedom to do what she wanted and supplying her with money ty buy whatever she wanted. she liked that and she told me that finally now"she has her own life and can do whatever she wants and i cannot impose any rules on her." he (the fater is only doing that to get bacj at me because he told me "if you do not want to sleep with me i shall leave but i shall take the daughter with me? (we also have a son who he abused he is 12 and does not want to kn ow about his father at this time.my daughter got involved with a boy who is 15 and they were "texting" or "sexting" whatever you cann and i found some pretty ugly and horrible sexually explicit things they were mailing to each other. we live in toronto and apparently this is considered a "criminal offence" punishable by law but so far i did not pursue this. i spoke to the mother of the boy and she berated me saying that she wants my daughter to be with her son and i have nothing to say about it - she had been sleeping in her house with the boyfriend and she said that this is not my business and i should not do anythjing against it because i shall get in trouble. Apparently my ex husband had been delivering our 15 year old daughter to het house to sleep and supplied hetr with birth control pills as well. I am devastated i am being pushed away from my daughter - she does not even want to talk to me. It appears that the fathet had reaaly brainwashed her againt me i do not know why. I am a good mother I am paying my daughter s private school (which is about $30,000 Cdn per year) and i have no daughter at home. I want her home and to finish high school and my husband makes a "prostitute" out of her. I do not know eher to turn sn y more - i had the catholic childrens aid involved with it (in toronto) and they interviewed her and said in 5 months she will be 16 and there is nothing we can do at thistime - because she will be considered an adult. I have a huge house, I am a professional woman , i would like to bring up my daughter to the best of standards and because i do not with to "sleep with this abusive crazy man" I am loosing my daughter. any adfvice ? I am really lost and desperate - my son is missing the sister - he is veey loyal he told me that he would never leave me and he "hates" his father for what he had done to him, i.e. stole his sister. Any advice? thank you.

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Bridget - posted on 11/23/2012

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I am really very desperate to get my daughter back - I started to take her to a very well known psychologist here in Toronto who specializes in "teenage problems" but her father does not allow her to go any more. This whole situation - i my opinion - is noting short of child prostitution" this boy she goes to sleep with is from a very wealthy family (with many millions) and I just cannot do anything against money (and my husband had always been a "gold digger" so to say . I really need advice because I ran out of steam b y now and I am afraid my daughter will just become something nobody would their daughter to become to. I do not really understand that there are no laws here in this country(Canada) to protect the mothers and their children. I am just flabbergasted. I am Canadian born and i am ashamed that such injustices can happen in this civilized country. Just unbelievable.

Bridget - posted on 11/23/2012

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I am really very desperate to get my daughter back - I started to take her to a very well known psychologist here in Toronto who specializes in "teenage problems" but her father does not allow her to go any more. This whole situation - i my opinion - is noting short of child prostitution" this boy she goes to sleep with is from a very wealthy family (with many millions) and I just cannot do anything against money (and my husband had always been a "gold digger" so to say . I really need advice because I ran out of steam b y now and I am afraid my daughter will just become something nobody would their daughter to become to. I do not really understand that there are no laws here in this country(Canada) to protect the mothers and their children. I am just flabbergasted. I am Canadian born and i am ashamed that such injustices can happen in this civilized country. Just unbelievable.

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