ASPERGERS son 10 treated bad because he was scared

Rachel - posted on 04/15/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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My son is 10 he's high functioning and suffers with paranoia .he heard about the smog just over a week ago and was terrified a totall little worrier.mum he ask ed please tell the school I can't go out to play today as the smog could effect me .I reassured him I would do this .you see he not only has aspergers but 4 years ago at age of 6 he suffered a stoke out of the blue after 9 long months in hosipital he was diagnosied with a rare brain disorder without no cure nor treatment life has been hard I also have a 16 year old daughter who has autism development delay learning difficultlys ..on the morning of the smog alfie wore a ww2 mask to school inside I spoke to dupty head and explained why he said. Yes of course it was ok for him to stay inside at play .I left alfie and his mask bless him and said bye bye .while inside class alfies teacher opened the windows alfie rang over and closed them sounting no his teacher said how dare you! And alfie was told to leave the classroom alfie tried to explain but was told to leave even though he said he was scared smog .half hour on his own outside.that afternoon I picked him up he was in tears had a total meltdown .I rang school but it was too late they had gone so next morning I didn't send him in school instead I rang and asked speak to the head I was left hanging couple mins then I heard sorry he's busy all day.I said I need to talk to him alfie is at home and I have an complaint.half hour later head rang me back.he was rude and told me because he has aspergers he tells his own story that the windows were never opened and he was sent outside for throwing chairs books round and a teacher stayed with him calm him down.omg I said alfie wouldn't lie he couldn't if he tried well he said I can fit you in at ten past 3 if you really need to ? Yes I said I think I do .so at ten past 3 I went over and bought alfie with me sat down with head and senco I questioned the days events and alfie spoke he said nearly in tears my teacher opened windows the children saw it all happen. I was scared so I shut them to save me and others.my teacher wad angry and put me outside I thew my book down I was upset and left outside ony own for half hour.I asked was he telling the truth as his story was different from my sons ! He got a bit load and said he uses his aspergers for everything .?? I felt I got nowhere no answers and very deeply hurt for my son in the way he was treated if half term now and I've decided to not send him back school I feel the school did not meet his needs and he was punched for being terrified.he also was sent out play that day even tho I asked personaly not too he played on school bench and tired to sleep block out everything this is my story thank you for reading feel free to advise me please thanks Rachel

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