Debbie - posted on 10/06/2013 ( 13 moms have responded )
My 26 yr old son still living at home. I have set rules which are: find a full time job and pay us rent, or find a part time job and enroll in college. He also has a daughter, which he is not with her mother, and we the grandparents go to get her every other weekend which is 1 hour away. He got a DUI and does not have his license. If he pays $180 he can finish his classes and then he would have a chance to get his license back. So the part time jobs he's had since the DUI I have taken him to work. He has quit 2 jobs because he didn't like them. He just has no motivation. I ask him daily to put his applications in and follow up with a phone call, along with enrolling in school. He says he will, although he doesn't. He has told me that he has put apps in but no employer is calling. I don't believe he has put applications in at all. He also has no respect for me AT ALL! Cusses, yells. Please someone respond. I do not know what to do. I have kicked him out before and then feel bad and let him back in. He says he has no where to go with no money and cannot drive. Please help. He just left today again and is now begging me for $20 to eat on. I am trying to be strong and telling him that he has to grow up on his own and make his way in this world. I am not giving him the money.