Kelly - posted on 01/06/2010 ( 47 moms have responded )
Thought I could handle it since I have a 12 year old with ADHD but the defiancy is killing me. Argues about everything, fights about everything, tells me no on everything I tell him to do so I avoid the fights by not arguing but then feel like he's getting away with stuff. The disruptions to the whole house and the temper tantrums are unbearable and now my 3 year old is witnessing and acting out from it. Help!