Stacie - posted on 03/15/2011 ( 38 moms have responded )
my baby daddy pays child support but he doesnt like to keep her on his weekends. hes alwayss maken excuses telling me he cant watch her or hes got to work or some lame excuse. hes good to her but not me. he doesnt like it when i go out with my gf's and want him to watch her so i can get a break, even if its just to the mall jut to shopp or walk around. and if i do go out. he wants to know where im at all the time and alot of the time he follows me to make sure im not meeting a guy and lying. my friend told me since he virberly abuses me and has hurt me in the past that i can file a restraining order but i dont want it be like that. i just want us to be OK with one another and friends later if possible. Any advice on what to do? i feel trappd and still feel like hes controling my life like he did when we were together.