Crystal Louise - posted on 10/22/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a 1yr old with my ex, who also has a 5yr old. We had an on again off again relationship for 3yrs. He would always break up with me, but this time I finally ended it. He would always sweet talk me and tell me that he will stop drinking, I won't hit you again, I'll be a better dad and boyfriend, I only have you, and so on. But in the end he would break his promises and start blaming everything on me and I get stuck raising our son alone. Again. I'd always helped him try to get his life together and always tried to keep him involved to some point in our son's life. Though now I realised that he doesn't want to be a actual "daddy" to our son. Only when I'm with him and even then...he pays more attention to me and/or other things besides our son. Which is why I ended it and also because I was tired of fighting with him infront of my son and having him walk in and out of our lives all the time. I accepted the fact that I'm going to do it on my own and he knows it too. Though as of recently he has been calling me from private a lot. I don't answer, but he does leave a voicemail here and there. He says its because he wants to know how our son is doing. Which I think is a lie, because if that was true why does he somehow go through my facebook to see if I've been with other guys and yeah. Asking my friends who have I been with lately and also spreading rumors that I'm a prostitute and that our son isn't his(which our son is the spitting image of him). So what should I do?