Kimberly - posted on 06/23/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
To start off, doctors told me i didnt have a chance of getting pregnant.
My ex (25 yrs old) and I (20 yrs old) were dating for a little under a year when i got pregnant in November of 2015. A couple months before i got pregnant we were talking about precautions just incase it were to happen, he told me i had nothing to worry about and that he would never leave my side. Everything was great. He was there with me for the first few months, in february everything started going down hill. From my families health to our relationship. When i needed him the most, physically and emotionally, he just wasnt there for me. He then broke up with me the first day of April because he said he lost feelings from me in march. He told me this once i caught him going out to bars with another girl. About a month later, still living with me because he wanted to be here for our baby, he starts seeing a girl from work. This girl (a month younger than me) knows i'm pregnant and wanted nothing to do with him because he was having a baby. A couple days later she agrees to dating him and still doesnt approve of our unborn child. She tells him that he shouldn't be hanging around with his ex if he wants to be with her, and continues to get mad at him for living with me. When he'd go over her house he wouldnt answer my calls or text messages. Especially when taking my car over there. They were on and off for a month because she knew it wouldnt work out knowing there was a baby on the way. Recently i told him he had to choose between his child or this girl because he was spending all his time with her when all i've been worrying about is how we were going to raise our child. I was the only one buying things for the baby, worrying about how we were going to afford to take care of him once he was born, and everything else. He not once bought a thing for our baby, but claims our son is going to be the most important thing in his life. We had a long conversation about a week ago and he told me i should maybe just raise my son on my own. Obiviously at that point he was only thinking about himself and this girl. After i broke down and told him i didnt impregnate myself, he agreed that he would put his son first 100% and not put his effort into a girl who didnt accept the fact that he was having a kid in the first place. Everything was going good for about a week and then i find out hes back to talking to this girl again after agreeing that our child came first. About 2 days ago i kicked him out of the house because i wanted the best for our child and thats not having his father put all his attention on another girl while i'm trying to raise my son. He still goes to the doctors appointments but still barely talks to me. Yesterday, i get a text saying "i hate this. I don't like being away from you like this." I don't know where to go from here..