Amanda - posted on 08/20/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
My baby daddy keeps fighting with me ever since we found out I was pregnant, I was with him at the time. Honestly I know so much crap about things some of his family has done and even he had mentioned he did as well, that I don't want my son around him or his family period. He lives over 10 hours away and thinks that every weekend I am going to drive down there to let him see my son. My baby is not born yet and I have not filed nothing yet because in my state you can't do so until the child is born. My point is I don't trust my baby daddy at all. Or the people he hangs around. I'm not putting him on the birth certificate, but he can file for a DNA test all he wants. He tells me I can't stop talking to him when all he does is fight with me and that's wht I comes down to me feeling is I can't freakin stand him. He drives me insane. My plan is to have him pay child support and me fight for full custody. But i dont know how to pursue that, im only 20 an this is my first child.bWhat I need advice on is if I don't put him on the birth certificate, even tell him when I go into labor, or dnt have any contact with him until I speak to a lawyer, (Can he use that against me for anything???) Anybody wanna give a girl advice, Please :) Thanks!!!!!!!