Baby daddy wants new girlfriend to meet my son

Rachael - posted on 09/20/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )




my baby's daddy wants his new girlfriend of 4 months to meet my 2 month old son. She also wants to meet me and help me raise my child. His father thinks it's good for him to have multiple moms in his sons life. Is this normal?!

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/20/2015




As I stated in your other post, it is better for the child to have as many people in his life who LOVE him, rather than having his mother be bitter because his father has moved on.
It is great that she's willing to take on the baggage, and you need to be adult enough to accept it.

Jodi - posted on 09/20/2015




Totally normal. People move on. If you found a new boyfriend, you'd eventually like him to meet your child, right? I will say, 4 months is a little soon, but unless you have court orders stating he can't do it, then you can't stop it. Also, it is normal that a step-parent will help raise a child when in their home. That doesn't mean they get a say in raising the child or in the decisions, just that they will often play a part in their lives when it is their turn for visitation.

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