Anne - posted on 02/10/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have two beautiful and healthy kids, DD age 9.5 and DS age 6.5. After my son, I knew I was done. So did my husband. With work and our small house, and the challenges that both threw at us ,2 kids seemed perfect. That was until a few months ago. In the past year or so our situation has changed dramatically. I now work from home part-time. We live in a much bigger house with a spare bedroom, and I just hit my 35th birthday 3 weeks ago. Suddenly my husband and I find the idea of a third child do-able. Logically, we both feel like we should be content with what we have. Why rock the boat when our kids are doing well and so are we? However, both of us must feel like its not enough because we both have this baby fever. WE are both equally stumped. I know we both want another baby, but is this one of those times that sense needs to trump want? The age gap is a bit scary and we are both hung up on the idea of having teens and a preschooler at the same time. So for anyone out there, how did you know you were done? What do you think of this age gap? HELP!!!!