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I am SM to my SD. So BM has told me that when SD starts asking about how she was born what she is going to tell her. And she told me that she is going to tell SD that BM and DH loved each other and then had her. I TOTALLY disagree that she should tell her that. Only because, she was NOT made out of love. My DH never loved her. They were together 1 month into them being in a relationship before she got pregnant and he stayed a couple more months and then he and I got back together after He and I were in a relationship and cheated on me with her. Do you think she should go ahead and tell her that they loved each other, or the truth which is, they were not in a serious relationship and weren't careful and they were blessed with her?
ps. Some of you may think maybe he just told me he didn't love her because it's me he's telling, and maybe he did love her, but BM has told me that is why they broke up because she asked him if he loved her and he told her "no".