[deleted account] ( 16 moms have responded )
Ok so im 24 yr old female dating a 39 yr man with a 19yr old baby mom of a 2 1/2 yr son. Ive beendating my boyfriend for almost a yr but we have been good friends for 13 1/2 yrs. He baby mom constantly threatens him of taking the kid away from him over the smallest thing im sick and tired of seeing him in pain. I dont speak my mind so much when it comes to this situation because i really dont know how to help him fix it. But i can say that i know that it causes issues in our relationship so today after four days of the babymom saying that he couldnt see his son she wants to call and say that she wants him to see the child. I need advice because i got upset because this is a routine and he feels like this is the only way to see the child if he plays by her rules but i am the one who haves to cheer him up or consoled him after shes toyed with his emotions and the only reason she does this is becsuse hes in a serious relationship i suggested ee break up so he could remain seeing the child but he declined that suggesting how do i help wighout being overwhelmed with his emotions.
Note; she has recently said the kid might not be his.