MarieMarie - posted on 07/27/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Before ma and my current ex-boyfriend broke up we had talked and decided 'we' wanted him, his mother and possibly my mother in the room when I deliver. Since that conversation he has abandon me quiet often in my pregnancy, slander me to his friends and family and completely ignores me to the point I have to use a 3rd party to talk to him. I'm fed up and considering Child support to make sure my daughter gets taken care of financially. MY QUESTION IS THIS:
Would it be mean or controlling 'IF' i only allow 'Him' to be in the delivery room with me?
P.S. His mother is excited about the baby but Throughout her son and I entire relationship hse has been in the middle and always in our business. I thought it would be fair to finally share one moment with only him...OR alone if he decides not to show up.
NEED ADVICE PLEASE THANKS :)