BABY ON THE WAY

MarieMarie - posted on 07/27/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Before ma and my current ex-boyfriend broke up we had talked and decided 'we' wanted him, his mother and possibly my mother in the room when I deliver. Since that conversation he has abandon me quiet often in my pregnancy, slander me to his friends and family and completely ignores me to the point I have to use a 3rd party to talk to him. I'm fed up and considering Child support to make sure my daughter gets taken care of financially. MY QUESTION IS THIS:


Would it be mean or controlling 'IF' i only allow 'Him' to be in the delivery room with me?




P.S. His mother is excited about the baby but Throughout her son and I entire relationship hse has been in the middle and always in our business. I thought it would be fair to finally share one moment with only him...OR alone if he decides not to show up.




NEED ADVICE PLEASE THANKS :)

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Michelle - posted on 07/27/2013

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The grandmothers can bond after the baby is born. They don't need to be at the birth to have a close bond.

Michelle - posted on 07/27/2013

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It's completely up to you who you have in the delivery room. I myself only had my husband, I would not want my Mother let alone my MIL there, they can visit later.

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MarieMarie - posted on 07/27/2013

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Thank you, I just didnt want to come across as a B****..Its bad enough my child father have slandered me and I do feel uncomfortable with his family alittle now. I jsut dont want to take away his mothers bond that she could have with the baby.I guess I still have some thinking to do about it. However I do appreciate your feedback.

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