Victoria - posted on 04/06/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am just asking for thoughts. There are 3 of us at my work that are pregnant, all due a week apart. Two of the woman in the office are throwing a joint baby shower for two of the girls but asked my mgr to ask me if it would be ok to exclude me bc it's my 3rd child. They wanted him to see if I would be offended if I was not included in the shower but want me to participate in donating to the gift and cake.
My question, is it bad that I told him it was fine but deep down a little hurt? Am I being selfish to feel hurt? I never asked anyone to give me anything but would it be harmful to add my name to the cake? Shouldn't my new baby be celebrated. Am I being selfish? Please be honest.